Posts Tagged ‘Farmers’

How do we treat the girls?

Tuesday, June 15th, 2010

“We all knew the farm would go to the boys. We were born in the ‘30’s and everyone expected Dad and Mom to roll it over to their sons. We were given educations, no land.”

“We wondered why my sister and I were not part of the family discussion about who would have the home place. It really hurt. Dad couldn’t understand why I was crying when we talked about it later.”

“The girls in our family all married well. I guess our parents felt we were well taken care of. My brothers got all the dairy quota and the farm. We girls got $10,000. I’m not sure my lawyer today would think that was fair!”

“Out here in dry land Saskatchewan we  wonder if we’re lucky we got cash and we are not stuck with the risk of the farm !” Continue reading How do we treat the girls? »

The Gift of Contentment

Tuesday, June 15th, 2010

My late mother-in-law came to this country as a young toddler, with parents , siblings and a suitcase. She lived her life with a thankful heart, content to share what she has with others in need.,… her health, her wealth , her wisdom and her cookies! “When you have enough, the basics, it is good to be content.,” is the gist of what Mom Froese believed.

I asked a few other farmers  about what they would say about contentment. One fellow had tears well up as he awaits the surgeon’s report. Others just shrugged their shoulders and said “it’s been a tough year…50 years of work is now in jeopardy.”

Circumstances may be critical, yet God is still in control. Is this a key to being content now matter what life crisis tries to crush you ? Continue reading The Gift of Contentment »

Is the Farm Terminally Ill?

Tuesday, June 15th, 2010

What do you want when your cattle farm feels like it is terminally ill?

Hope. Hope that you will find a way to make things work again.

Where is a sense of hope when you feel like your farm is dying?

As a believer, my hope is in God, that He will make a way.  As an encourager, I ask you to ponder and consider how to process and live  with depressed livestock market prices.. As a farmer, I’ve learned to separate out the things I have control over, and the things I don’t.

Glean from the people with terminal illness, and see if some of their wisdom can transfer to the farm that feels like it is terminally ill: Continue reading Is the Farm Terminally Ill? »

Why should I be a better listener – Part Two

Tuesday, June 15th, 2010

What if I showed you a free tool that you could implement today that would have the potential to make your farm 21% more profitable, without spending a dime ?

What is it?

It’s listening.  After you have asked  “What’s the most important thing to talk about?”

continue to listen, and use more open-ended questions.

Open ended questions that don’t require a simple yes or no answer will start the tsunami of ideas flowing your way. If your son is an “idea” style communicator, he needs lots of uninterrupted time to explain his great production idea to you, and talk about the potential to diversify your farm operation. Don’t interrupt. Let him go on all the tangents he needs to and look him in the eye. Nod in affirmation that you are truly listening, and try not to cross your arms in disgust or with impatience. Do you actually remember what it felt like to have dreams, be invincible, and feel like nothing could stop you ? Continue reading Why should I be a better listener – Part Two »

Why should I be a better listener? – Part One

Thursday, June 3rd, 2010

What if I showed you a free tool that you could implement today that would have the potential to make your farm 21% more profitable, without spending a dime ?

This tool was used by US farm journalist John Phipps and he said his business generated more income as a result. It was also used by the top-shelf farmers in over 6 states who were studied by Virginia Tech Grad students.

What is it? Continue reading Why should I be a better listener? – Part One »